John Mayer appears to be entering a new phase in his personal life as he deepens his connection with Kat Stickler, a social media influencer. A source close to the musician has revealed that Mayer, 48, is at a stage where he is ready to settle down and is committed to dating seriously. Mayer and Stickler, 31, have reportedly been spending quality time together, including a recent Thanksgiving weekend, where Stickler was introduced to some of Mayer’s friends, further indicating the seriousness of their relationship.
The insider mentioned that the couple’s chemistry can largely be attributed to their shared sense of humor and compatible personalities. Their connection reportedly began online, with Mayer actively pursuing Stickler, inviting her to various events, and maintaining regular communication. Initially, Stickler was open to dating again after her recent breakup but did not anticipate that the relationship would mature into something more serious.
The romance first gained media attention when the two were spotted dining at Fly Fish in New York City earlier this fall. Since then, they have been seen together multiple times in the city, which fueled speculation about their relationship status. Though neither has made formal statements about their relationship, Stickler hinted at their budding romance through social media. In an Instagram Story, she showcased herself wearing Mayer’s merchandise, specifically a pair of blue sweatpants, and sharing moments that might resonate with Mayer’s fans, such as indulging in donuts—a nod to his well-known “Donut Sundays.”
Stickler’s relationship with Mayer follows her split from Jason Tartick, a former contestant on “The Bachelor,” with whom she ended a less-than-year-long relationship in October 2024. The breakup was amicably announced by Tartick, who expressed gratitude for the joy and light that Stickler brought into his life.
Prior to her relationship with Tartick, Stickler was married to Mike Stickler from 2019 to 2021, and they share a four-year-old daughter. There were also brief links to Cameron Walker immediately after her divorce.
Mayer, known for his high-profile past relationships with stars like Jennifer Aniston and Katy Perry, has recently spoken about his desire for marriage. In a 2024 episode of the “Comfort Food” podcast, he expressed that despite public perception, he indeed wants to tie the knot. He shared a glimpse into his romantic aspirations, stating that having a partner who knows she can rely on him is an essential quality he admires.
As Mayer and Stickler navigate their developing relationship, many are eager to see how this chapter unfolds for both of them.
