The New England Patriots’ linebacker Jahlani Tavai and his wife, Kalei Mau, are mourning the heartbreaking loss of their baby due to a stillbirth occurring six months into the pregnancy. In a poignant Instagram post shared on December 10, Kalei revealed that she had been in a medically-induced coma for six days after battling a severe and rare blood infection.
Kalei described her ordeal, stating that she had been found unresponsive in her bed on November 20, leading to her hospitalization. During this critical time, her health deteriorated, causing her organs to fail and the infection to compromise the placenta. Tragically, it was against this backdrop that the couple’s baby, whom they had planned to name Ka ua Tavai—which translates to “the rain” in Olelo O Hawai’i—passed away in utero.
In her heartfelt message, Kalei shared the significance of the name, emphasizing that “with Ka ua, everything grows.” She also recounted the harrowing experience of delivering their child while unconscious, an event that Jahlani witnessed. The Tavai family is already parents to a 13-month-old daughter, Honua, and this loss marks an immense emotional challenge for them.
Kalei’s post not only serves as an expression of grief but also highlights the complexities of health crises during pregnancy. As they navigate this unimaginable sorrow, the couple seeks support from their family, friends, and supporters during this difficult time. The community surrounding the couple is coming together to offer condolences and support as they honor the memory of their baby.
